This Sunday, a horrific tragedy took place in Jerusalem. A mother of four girls strangled her children to death and then committed suicide.
When things like this happen, I've noticed that people…tend to respond in one of two ways. The first type of response is rage: "What a horrible monster! How could a woman murder her own children?!" The second type of response is trying to understand: "She had a mental illness and apparently just lost it... the poor woman." It seems to me that the… >> Read More
I’m not sure when I first realized that something was different.
It may have been when I started reading articles about other women’s experiences of motherhood: how they felt about their…children, things they sacrificed for their children’s well being, how they enjoyed their children above all else. It was probably in my third pregnancy, when I started to feel weighed down by everything—when I found myself having difficulty performing basic tasks for my boisterous toddlers. It was then that I found myself lying on the… >> Read More
The Force is strong in my family.
My parents have it. I have it. My husband has it. And my children have it.
…And by “the Force,” I mean the high sensitivity trait.
High sensitivity,…known scientifically as “sensory processing sensitivity,” is a trait that that appears in 15-20% of the population. It basically means that we process sensory information more deeply than the rest of the population, making us more receptive and more responsive to various stimuli. For example, my husband will jump 10 feet in the air if… >> Read More