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Oct 21 2013

I’m in Love With My Son’s First Celebrity Crush

By at 2:11 pm

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Disclaimer: I asked my son’s permission to write the below piece. He read and signed off on its contents prior to publication.

My oldest son is now 14 years old. For the past few months, he’s been crushing on a TV actress. Nothing surprising about that.

What is surprising is the TV actress he picked: Mindy Kaling, creator, writer, and star of “The Mindy Project.”

Not that there’s anything wrong with that. I happen to be a fan of Mindy myself. My husband and I watch her show regularly. (Though my son actually stumbled on it while on an airplane, and proceeded to binge watch the entire first season. Then he read Mindy’s book. And then he followed her on Twitter.)

My surprise stems from the fact that I expected my son to go the more predictable teenage boy route and obsess over some six foot tall, blonde, Amazonian, busty supermodel type (not that there’s anything wrong with that, either; we all have to work with what we’re given). Mindy Kaling is none of those things. She is relatively short, relatively curvy, non-white and, at least based on the character she plays on TV and the character she plays in interviews (I’ve worked in the media too long to believe anyone is ever being “authentic” in front of a camera), smart, hard-working, an independent thinker. And very, very funny.

In other words, she’s this mom’s dream girl. Read the rest of this entry →

Oct 10 2013

The Jewish Prayer That’s Never Let Me Down

By at 2:16 pm

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Parenting has been compared to many things. I like to compare it to playing darts while wearing a blindfold. Because so often, it really does feel as though it’s just a stab in the dark.

Except when it works.

Some theory you have or some tactic you use works. And then, for one moment, you feel like a freakin’ parenting expert.

Which is exactly how I felt when I overheard the following conversation between my kids Lilly, age 10, and Jacob, age 6. Read the rest of this entry →

Aug 8 2013

My Daughter’s First Shave

By at 5:01 pm

pink razor“You are not allowed to shave until you are 16.”

“Because once you start, you’ll never be able to stop.”

“And never–no matter what–never shave above your knee.”

I know, from the unscientific surveying of my contemporaries, that I was not alone in receiving such cautionary wisdom about shaving. But it makes me wonder where our mothers obtained this advice. Was it from their mothers? From their own experiences? From some outdated, antiquated, musty teen etiquette handbook?  Read the rest of this entry →

Jul 25 2013

The Kids Go to Overnight Camp & Mom Freaks Out

By at 9:40 am

woman crying in bedMidnight, and the moonlight painted a white stripe across the bottom of the bed. It was a quiet summer night.

It was only if you listened closely that you could hear that most tell-tale of all camp-related noises: the muffled sounds of someone trying to hide that they were crying.

My husband raised himself up on an elbow in bed. “Wait a second–are you CRYING?” he asked me.

Um, well, yeah.

“Seriously?”

Um, well, yeah. Read the rest of this entry →

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