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Why I Want My Daughter To Grow Up With A Female President

hillary clinton

I followed the presidential election with mild amusement—until last week when I found out that I’m pregnant with a daughter. The stakes suddenly grew higher.

I had laughed at Trump along with my liberal friends from New York City and supported Clinton for her policies, experience, and competence. But the truth is that I was exponentially more invested in the outcome once I knew the gender of my unborn child.

Watching Clinton debate with Trump for the first time got my heart racing. I thought about how the next president will take office only a week before my due date and my daughter could be born during a historic moment. She could grow up in a world where the most powerful public figure in the US, and arguably the world, is a woman. My daughter will always know that her potential is limitless.

I observed how Clinton kept her cool when Trump took cheap shots at her and degraded women. She stayed calm and thoughtfully answered questions. I remembered times when boys in school, or later men at work, made sexist comments or spoke in a misogynistic way. I didn’t always have the tools to navigate those situations. I wasn’t sure what to say and how to stick up for myself. I would swell with pride if my daughter learned how to handle barbs from men the way Clinton did during the debate.

I grew up in a feminist household where I was taught that I could do anything men could do. My parents diminished the importance of being pretty and instead focused on developing my intellect. I was surrounded by strong female role models who were at the top of their professional fields. Despite all of this, I know that growing up with a female president would have had an added benefit and influence.

I understand that Clinton won’t relieve my responsibility of raising a daughter. But I am hopeful that very soon it won’t be a big deal for a woman to be president. I want my daughter to know that not only does her mom believe in her, but the majority of the country does, too. I want her to compete against men, put them in their place when they disrespect her, and be confident without caring about losing her sex appeal.

With or without Hillary, I know I have my work cut out for me.

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Miriam Levine

Miriam Levine has an MBA from NYU's Stern School of Business where she specialized in Strategy and Social Innovation and Impact. She graduated from the University of Pennsylvania with a Bachelors degree in American History. She currently lives on the Upper East Side with her husband and newborn son. She is the Founder and Managing Editor of www.forwardfemales.com

The opinions expressed here are the personal views of the author. Comments are moderated, so use your inside voices, keep your hands to yourself, and no, we're not interested in herbal supplements.

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