My Primitive Passover Scavenger Hunt – Kveller
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My Primitive Passover Scavenger Hunt

Just like Christmas shoppers hate to see a Christmas tree in Macy’s too soon, when I see the giant gefilte fish and matzah display at Costco in late February it sends me into a panic. Unlike the Christmas shoppers, I don’t think about how the store is ruining or commercializing the holiday. I think, is it time for gefilte fish already? I think that finding the foods for this holiday, including that gigantic jar of gefilte fish, is not easy and so maybe I should stockpile now. I start thinking about how many people I’m having for Passover – a lot or a little? One manageable table or an impossible four?

Most of the year I’m a pretty normal American woman. I look normal. I dress in a fairly normal manner. I walk in grocery stores and have a vaguely normal shopping list. Yes, there are certain Jewish holidays here and there where I’m maybe shopping for twenty pound bags of potatoes in the winter, apples and honey, round challahs and smoked fish in the fall, or poppy filling in March. All a little odd.

But then there’s Passover.

Costco, of course, can only satisfy a few needs for this holiday. Though I’m willing to bounce back and forth between their kosher smoked fish case and the Passover display, both forming a miniature Pale of Settlement in the store for Jewish shoppers to cling to, I will eventually have to venture out to the Jewish section of the regular grocery stores, to their Pesach tables, and to the kosher stores, to get everything else I need.

Shopping for Passover is like being on the worst scavenger hunt I will ever be on in my whole life. My grocery list looks like it was written in medieval Poland. I need a really big brisket. Like maybe an entire cow. And chicken livers. Like the whole chicken.

And maybe ten thousand eggs.

I need horseradish – red and white. I need fish and potatoes, matzah and parsley. Coconut and carrots. Apples and walnuts and honey and wine. Oh, and they wouldn’t happen to have four shank bones hanging around, would they? One time when my mother was alive she had a craving for real kishke. I went to the store with her instructions: I needed rendered fat and casings. The butcher seemed mystified.

How did I become my mother? Or, rather, my grandmother, great-grandmother and great great-grandmother, all the way down the line? How did I get so fascinated with the butchers at all the grocery stores in town, interrogating the staff about their briskets, their chicken livers, the weights, and when they’re expected?

When I’ve bought everything on my list, I start cooking very meticulously. I cling to the idea that if I’m organized about this, I can be ready. I can’t really be ready.

Sometimes while I’m out shopping, I run into the rest of the world. There they are, happy normal people, out shopping for regular groceries, like bread, or in the Easter aisle buying chocolate eggs, squishy Peeps, and giant chocolate Easter bunnies. I’m somewhat surprised that the world is just ticking along as normal, and there’s not an emergency in their kitchens like there is in mine. Because no matter how far ahead I start, no matter how much I’m sure I’m finished the night before, it never fails that two hours before the seder I have to call my sister in for emergency backup, for parsley sprig placement or for boiled egg-peeling.

Back at the store I find the last thing on my list, horseradish root for the Seder plate— a gnarled primitive-looking thing which I grasp in my matching gnarled hand, and I head home.

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