Pregnancy #2 is REALLY DIFFERENT

My husband’s been noticing that I start a lot of sentences with any combination of the following: “You know what sucks/is hard/feels bad/hurts/is tiring?” The answer is always BEING PREGNANT.

The last time around, though, it wasn’t this bad. When I was tired, I’d take a nap. When I was hungry, I’d eat. When I had to pee, I’d just walk myself over to the bathroom. When I wanted to go to prenatal yoga, I’d grab my yoga mat. When I wanted to take a walk, I’d go.

Now? If I’m tired, I resort to turning on Yo Gabba Gabba and putting my almost-3-year-old on my lap so that when I doze off, I’ll wake up if she tries to escape. These days, when I’m hungry, I have to share my snacks (unless it’s pickles or olives–she doesn’t like those, and I’ve certainly been craving them!) These days, when I have to pee, I’m either bringing her with me, or peeing with the door open. These days, when I want to go to prenatal yoga, I have to coordinate childcare with my husband or a friend. And these days, when I want to take a walk, I’m either pushing a stroller that weighs 40 lbs or walking at a 3-year-old’s pace (though, in truth, it’s not that much slower than my pace at 36 weeks pregnant).

The first time I was pregnant, I was excited to give birth so that I’d meet my baby. The second time? Of course I’m excited to meet baby #2, but really, right now, I’m excited to give birth so that I don’t have to be pregnant anymore.

Amy Deutsch

Amy is a Jewish educator and a mom. After graduating from Brandeis University she received a master’s degree at the Jewish Theological Seminary where she was a Wexner Fellow. Over the past 10 years Amy has developed experience in teaching, family education, camp, curriculum writing, and most recently, has begun teaching “Baby & Me” classes.

The opinions expressed here are the personal views of the author. Comments are moderated, so use your inside voices, keep your hands to yourself, and no, we're not interested in herbal supplements.

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