Dear Gefilte is Kveller's advice column. You can send your questions for Gefilte to firstname.lastname@example.org. Dear Gefilte is written by Abby Sher.
Abby Sher is a writer, performer, and mom to three cool beans. Her memoir, Amen, Amen, Amen: Memoir of a Girl Who Couldn't Stop Praying got lots of awards from people like Oprah. She writes regularly for The New York Times and The Jewniverse and wears a bike helmet to bed.